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Pot calling the kettle black
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Right, so I was browsing the net and it just so happen I stumbled upon she-who-shall-be-named's blog. Okay so maybe it isn't just one she, it's plenty of shes. Notice the she, and not he. It's sad how it's always the girls. Anyways, it's really disturbing to be reading their hate posts. It's amazing how they post in deep hatred and anger for the nittiest and most pettiest issues. It's especially more sad when they get cheered on and the victim (the one who's got ugly words all over his name) is left helpless. I personally feel the need for a blog, seriously and honestly. I've been blogging since secondary school and haven't stop and never intended to stop either. It's a form of way to let friends know of the updates in your life. Esp when you're always busy, and you can't always expect to keep up with all latest issues on your friends. So you read their blog. But there always come the point where I have to change my link every now and then when I come to learn of shallow readers regularly visiting my blog. They don't just visit, they leave their opinions. Their really-not-needed-and-don't-even-wanna-know-and-best-kept-to-self opinions. But that's not the issue, the real issue is why is there a need for all these ugly and mean words when we can always just merely rephrase our sentences in a more rational and sensitive manner. What's really sad is when you post it out of anger only to regret it later. But what's done can never be undone. So before you come to regret, think twice. Maybe thrice or many plent couple of times. And that isn't the worst part yet. What's even worst is when the totally ignore people's feeling and actually publicly post his name like it doesn't matter. People have got feelings for crying out loud ! And haven't you already seen Hannah Montana, din't she mention you'll only get a bigger fire when you fight fire with fire (or something that runs along that line heh) I'm not preaching or whining or anything, and afterall it is my space. But I don't know, maybe ponder a while or really consider when you're posting about someone or anyone for that matter. It would be really nice if you're posting about your happy moments and all, but it will really seem bitter when you start firing angry words. & all that's become of your blog is a space where you keep firing back at each other ugly words you don't really mean. Tell me, how dyou suppose a fuckface really look like ? And it doesn't sets you apart from him/her cause really, you've just stoop that low too. Whudn't it be better if you ignore, posting it only means it's affecting you. Furthermore, don't you already realise whatever you write is read ? Talk to the wall, cry out loud to your boyfriends or bitch to your girlfriends. But don't go to the extent of PUBLICIZING it. It's just not nice and practice some discretion already, it's the WORLD WIDE WEB dammit, you don't post nasty things and expect to get away with it always yknow. I'm not taking sides. It's just that it's really hurtful to read. Cause imagine putting your shoes in theirs, it'd be a bitter feeling isn't it. Esp if the one posting is esp popular and somehow she gets support for the wrong things she've done. I simply think it's unfair. Well, I'm in no position myself to judge, so I shall zip. Goodnight :) With love, Nur Edlin Effendi at 10:57 PM
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